When you are with a narcissist everything is always someone else's fault. NPD abuse victims feel that they were always being blamed for everything and they were - because behind closed doors he is taking all his frustration and unhappiness out on YOU. You are by default the closest to him, so you are by default they only one being abused by him. Therefore, in his mind, you are a good scapegoat to blame for everything he sees wrong with the world. In other words, normal things that most people adapt to, but the narcissist can't cope with when his world feels out of sorts.
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