He is a snake

They will send the next door neighbor to talk to you and tell you how the called crying...  They will make false promises and tell you what you want to hear like "I married you because we communicated on a spiritual level" or "I will always take care of you even if you won't take me back" and "if you don't take me back I deserve it."  THEN when you fucking take them back and ask them for TIME and ask them to work on the root of the problem they basically say "fuck you" or "we can't communicate" or "Am I supposed to spend the rest of my life kissing your ass" or "I don't know why you are hanging that shelf I AM MOVING I AM LEAVING".  Then when you start to have an emotional breakdown because of the outright lies and realizing you were hoovered and used once again (because he had nowhere else to go) he just rolls his eyes and shows downright contempt at the mere sound of your voice or your mere presence in the room.  He lies and gets away with murder.  But if I dare say "one day the truth will enter your soul and you will feel bad about this and realize I am telling the truth, then he says "don't threaten me."