Yes, every single time I opened my mouth

he sighed and muttered these words or looked up to heaven and said "Ya Rab" or “Astaghfirullah” He looked at me with disdain and contempt because I was attempting to speak and say how I felt or something I need him to hear or do.  Please don't be fooled by his charm in public.  He will do this to you behind closed doors especially when things are happening in his life he doesn't understand or can't control.