You will ALWAYS end up devalued and discarded by a narcissist because they do NOT have a connection to any of the realms of human relationships, the human condition, bonding, or loving anyone.
It is only a matter of time that their mask slips and their boredom, disdain, envy, and hatred for the very connection they created with you surfaces. Their real disconnection with people is their reality and it ALWAYS send them off in another direction to source out and find new people to feed their out-of-control lifestyle.
We are ONLY supply and narcissists have to always attain MORE viable supply to get their fix or that high back because they cannot participate in real intimacy or grow with it and they fail miserably at their charade BUT convince us that we are at fault.
Their battle is with themselves and demands putting ALL of their attention to their false mask and fortress of denial of who and what they really are.
The only way they can function is to have a constant source of 'people supply' or VARIETY. Remember that old saying that variety is the spice of life? Well a narcissist will live and die by this cliche.
- Greg Zaffuto
It is only a matter of time that their mask slips and their boredom, disdain, envy, and hatred for the very connection they created with you surfaces. Their real disconnection with people is their reality and it ALWAYS send them off in another direction to source out and find new people to feed their out-of-control lifestyle.
We are ONLY supply and narcissists have to always attain MORE viable supply to get their fix or that high back because they cannot participate in real intimacy or grow with it and they fail miserably at their charade BUT convince us that we are at fault.
Their battle is with themselves and demands putting ALL of their attention to their false mask and fortress of denial of who and what they really are.
The only way they can function is to have a constant source of 'people supply' or VARIETY. Remember that old saying that variety is the spice of life? Well a narcissist will live and die by this cliche.
- Greg Zaffuto
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